Some women offer their men to take turns cooking, as well as washing the dishes. I wouldn't want to live with a man who would suggest that I take turns nailing shelves or cleaning the sink if it's clogged.

Relationships and family are, first of all, an exchange of energy.

And if you are tired at work, and the best thing you can do is fry eggs or buy a salad at the supermarket, then this should also be a signal.

Yes, this can happen and you can always agree with a man that there will be no dinner today, we will order something or cook it quickly. But if you only have the strength to quickly cook something, then you don’t have the strength to communicate or interact with a man either. And this can definitely become a problem sooner or later.

It turns out that our desire or reluctance to cook is always an indicator of our workload and fatigue, and therefore a lack of energy in relationships.

And one more point, which also concerns food in the family.

I believe that a woman is responsible for the diet, and therefore for the health and weight of her household.

It depends on the woman what the family will eat and at what weight all family members will be.

When I see a slender woman, and next to her a plump and flabby man, I conclude that the woman, in fact, does not care about her husband.

For example, I do not have publicly available candies, cookies, or gingerbreads that can be consumed in unlimited quantities. I generally don’t have such products at home. The “tasty” items are usually apples or seasonal fruits.

I don’t buy any bread or pies for home. If such purchases happen, they are very rare and in limited quantities. Ketchups and mayonnaise do not live in the refrigerator at all.

Fried potatoes are rare, but there is no fried chicken or meat at all, as it is now fashionable to say: - from the word “at all”. All vegetables, as well as chicken or fish, are either baked or stewed.

I was once asked in a comment to an article that: It’s clear that you eat like this, but what about men, they can’t get enough of one salad?

Men also like to have a toned body, not a body that is spreading out in different directions, and they can sacrifice fried and high-calorie foods for this.

Therefore, I believe that the family should have a special nutrition system, thanks to which we can control and maintain weight. Moreover, today, when there are so many temptations around and so much food, this is a big problem.

Even if a woman cooks in a hurry, but at the same time with meaning and desire, loved ones feel warmth, care, and her energy. A man feels that the woman is nearby, she cares what happens to him, to his family, this is the most important thing, this is what is valued.

This is exactly the way to a man’s heart!

And a few words about the master class that took place October 7 in Moscow, I know that many are waiting for news.

I was a little worried, because this was the first live training within the framework, I prepared a lot, repeated the text of the master class both on the train and in the hotel.

Everything went like clockwork, at a pace, no unnecessary words, no deviations from the topic. At the end I was left with the feeling that I was ready to conduct two more master classes. Such was the response and energy from the participants! I liked everything very much.

Thanks to everyone who participated! (not everyone fits in the photo).

The only thing is that I would add another hour of time for communication and tea drinking, next time I will take this into account :))

That's all for me. In the comments, write whether you like to cook, whether you cook, and what you cook when you don’t have time.

And write if you agree with what

The way to a man's heart is through his stomach?

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Tatyana Dzutseva

When I cook borscht for you
Take your hands away
And don't bother me making the dish.
Love lies through the stomach!
First I’ll finish cooking the borscht,
After...
...I LOVE!
..........I LOVE!
.....................I LOVE!
And now we are very hungry,
And the borscht is cooked, by the way!

Well, what is it, really?!
We sat. They drank. Sang. Ate.
Then there was an intermission and the lights went out.
You returned, and like Pegasus,
I trampled my entire back with my foot!
Yes! I have a lot of sins!
You know them inside out
But take the bra into account!
How could I, Japanese mother,
Say this about me?!..

Check this out! That's right - a bra, Zina!
And I thought that there were two baskets
You brought it from the village store.
I also thought: “What for!?”
But the bra is not mine!
You know all my underwear:
Briefs, suspenders and socks -
Everything is haute couture, from someone else’s feet.

Now, regarding the interrogation,
And the destruction caused...

I, Zin, walked alone in the hut.
Then Petrukha rolled up,
He helped me milk the geese
Yes, and feed the cow.
Should I have poured it for him?!
Then, suddenly, Seryoga came -
To the light and to help.
More men flocked
To the light, like moths,
But I vaguely remember their faces,
My stomach was really tormented.
And I am your agronomist
Kicked me in the ass and drove me out of the house -
Because you're a vile little booger
For grub and vodka, my mouth is open!

But Taska was not there, the infection!
She’s a spy, you can tell right away!
And who locked her in the hut -
I can’t understand it at all...

My hut is not a mausoleum
For all sorts of geese-****s!
There are positive people here
He lives, and eats, and drinks vodka.
You are an immoral alimony!
Get out, Taska, get out now!
And don't forget the belly covers.
Have a nice trip, Kutuzov!
…………..
(Who could, while I was passed out,
Arrange a mating with Taska in the hut?!)

Is the way to a man's heart really through his stomach?

Some women try to get to a man's heart only through his stomach. It's no secret that many men, just like women, love to eat delicious food. So, many representatives of the fair sex seriously think that if they cook deliciously, then the man will not leave them anywhere. They spend their days fiddling around in the kitchen, studying culinary recipes, and treating their lover to unusual delicacies.

Cooking well is certainly good, but it is not a panacea for loneliness. Try to imagine a man who lives only by his stomach. Surely, all his interests would also be subordinated only to how to fill this stomach with food. This trick would definitely work on such a representative of the stronger sex. But a man is not some kind of amoeba who thinks about food all day long. So why do many women try to keep a man with food and are sincerely perplexed when he leaves them?

After all, a man needs not only tasty food, although this is also important. Let's look from the outside at a woman who seriously believes that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. She puts all her strength into feeding this man more deliciously. And then he makes a big mistake, and more than one.

Firstly, you shouldn’t keep a man with food or anything else. Why keep it at all? He's not some kind of prisoner, is he? Men don’t like it when people try to restrain them by force and use tricks. Such relationships are doomed to failure from the very beginning. Secondly, the woman focuses on delicious food, forgetting about more important things. And the logic is this: if there is delicious food on the table, then a man will turn a blind eye to everything else.

She spends all day in the kitchen, forgetting to take time for herself and her figure too. After all, she has to try all these delights. Without such tasting you will not become a good cook. A woman unwittingly eats more than normal.

There are also advantages here: culinary improvement, the desire to make my husband happy. Only this method must be used in combination. There is no need to dissolve in your husband and live only by his food preferences. Besides, every man has his own values. Not everyone puts a woman's cooking ability on a pedestal. For example, if a woman is a brilliant specialist in some field and she earns good money, I don’t think that a man will reproach her for her inability to cook.

Having money completely solves this problem. Agree, it is inappropriate to lock a woman in the kitchen if during this time she can earn enough money to cover several trips to a restaurant. Each person is unique, so the approach to him should be the same.

Olga Nikitina

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From time immemorial, there has been a legend among women that the way to the heart of any man lies exclusively through the stomach. Is the legend true?

Of course, there is some truth in this “axiom”, but is it really possible to defeat a man outright (and “to death”) with culinary talents alone?

We are paving the way to a man’s heart – how and what to feed your lover?

No one will argue with the fact that all men love to eat delicious food. And with the fact that a well and tasty fed man is a man from whom one can “twist ropes” (the second statement does not apply to all princes).

And most importantly - with the fact that the beloved man should fly home from work on wings, knowing that his soul mate is waiting for him with another culinary masterpiece. Don’t wander off to the dining room, to friends’ houses, or to the pub.

The point is simple: if a man feels good at home, then after work he will go home, and not anywhere else.

Of course, one delicious dinner is not enough. If the wife is a super cook, but a bitch with a shattered nervous system, then no amount of fricassee, goulash and cakes will save her from divorce. Therefore, it is important that everything is “included”.

What should you feed your beloved spouse to justify the status of “queen of the kitchen”?

First, a little theory:

• Find out more about all his preferences (from his friends or parents).
• Remember - what he absolutely cannot stand , and eliminate these dishes from the menu forever.
• Make yourself a list of his favorite foods by category. For example, “will drive you crazy”, “can’t live without it”, “loves”, “won’t refuse”, “can eat for lack of anything else”, “won’t put it in his mouth”. This will make it easier for you to stay in culinary tone. Today and tomorrow we cook from the “loves” category, on Wednesday (for example) we suddenly delight him with a masterpiece from the “will drive you crazy” series.
• Don't forget about satiety. We leave the broccoli and green salad with spinach for ourselves, and a man should not leave your table hungry.
• Remember the little things. Just the dish is only half the battle. It's important properly decorate and serve. Let your man feel that you care about him.
• Semi-finished products from the store “give to the enemy.” We feed the man only tasty, healthy and fresh food. However, no one has canceled their own preparations (they will even help you keep your finger on the pulse).
• Do not overuse fatty, spicy and smoked foods . Remember that you need to feed your man deliciously, and not kill him deliciously. Try to prepare dishes after which he will not lie like a seal on the sofa with pills for heaviness in the stomach, heartburn - and, God forbid, diarrhea. Choose wisely recipes and count calories, take into account his activity and workload, balanced diet - you need a healthy and slender man.
• Pamper your other half! At least once a week, prepare something new - fight it again and again. You have already won your man, now you need to consolidate your success.
• No need to “jump out of your skin” every day , scouring the Internet in search of a super-original recipe. Even scrambled eggs for breakfast can be made in such a way that a man will be satisfied. Learn to turn ordinary dishes into new ones.
• Always be prepared for the possibility of guests visiting you. In order not to lose face in front of your husband’s friends (relatives), stock up on products from which you can quickly come up with something “out of the ordinary” in the event of force majeure.

And now - about dishes that men usually never refuse:

• Steak. When thinking about what to cook for a man, in almost 99% of cases you can start with the words “take a piece of meat...”. And steak usually breaks records for popularity among men. The main thing is not to dry it out, burn it, oversalt it, etc. That is, the steak must be perfect. Work out while your husband is not at home. And don't forget the sauce! The sauce is very important.
• Homemade burger . Men are like children. They don't stop snacking on burgers even after they start earning enough to eat out at a cafe or restaurant every night. Learn to cook burgers at home, and your partner will have a snack exclusively in your kitchen.
• Homemade shawarma. The background is the same as in the previous paragraph. Homemade shawarma, prepared by the caring hands of a loving wife, is always a masterpiece. The important point is the delicious sauce. The dish should be juicy, hot, in crispy pita bread and with fried pork (in extreme cases, chicken).
• Pilaf. Of course, the men themselves cook the best pilaf. But since we are not talking about a woman’s heart and stomach, we will have to learn how to cook it. The secret of good pilaf is in the right choice of meat and rice, special spices, and strict adherence to the “instructions” for cooking.
• Homemade pizza. An option for when you need to quickly feed a spouse who has popped home for half an hour for a snack. Make dough pieces (thin!) in advance and put them in the freezer. All you have to do is take out the dough, spread the delicious ingredients on it and stick it in the oven.
• Leg of lamb baked in the oven. A dish for the occasion - to surprise and amaze. Lamb must be exclusively fresh, and it cannot be overcooked - the meat must be juicy! Don't forget about garlic and spices, you can add thyme or rosemary. And definitely a side dish! Not pasta, of course - better baked vegetables or a couple of delicious salads.

Well, off to the road...

If a week after you met a man literally stayed with you to live because you “struck him” with your signature borscht and cabbage pies, and he is ready from morning to evening to nail shelves for you, fix taps and take out the trash, just to have happiness eat your borscht - kick him in the neck. Most likely, he simply has nowhere to live. Or is he just from the army?

And generally speaking - no need to invite a man to borscht right away. Borscht is an intimate affair.

You need to start feeding a man only when your relationship has already passed the candy-bouquet period and moved to the stage of “wouldn’t it be worth it.” That is, take your time and don’t disrupt the sequence of relationship development.

Everything has its time!

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For many years, scientists and psychologists have been trying to create an image of an ideal woman, but over time, all images change their meaning. What are we talking about? Read on.

According to psychologists, at the moment there are stereotypes that should be dispelled in order to maintain normal, “healthy” relationships. Women have always strived for the ideal man and tried to meet certain requirements. “Does he like it when I have my hair like this?”, “I’ll cook his favorite dish, maybe it’ll make him feel better?” - sound familiar?

Food

“The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach” - yes and no. Any representative of the stronger sex is pleased when, upon returning home, he smells something delicious, but it’s no secret that this alone cannot hold and win a man.

Communication

“Men don’t like empty talk” - no. Truth is born in conversation, but you have nothing to talk about? This is a wake-up call. The couple should be interested in each other. Women are used to pouring out their souls and sharing their experiences with their lover, but men are not so verbose. Nevertheless, it is worth taking an interest in his affairs, work, and most importantly, his thoughts. Behind a hard and impenetrable shell, different thoughts can be hidden, and by the way, not always calm ones. This way the beloved will be able to gain trust in herself.

Self-sufficiency

“Men love self-sufficient women” - yes. Both men and women want to see support next to them. A woman who strives for her goal and has a hobby attracts men much more. In her, a lover can find both an interlocutor and a friend, that is, a person who can directly and correctly express his opinion. With such a woman nearby, any problems and adversities are easier to solve. On the other hand, if she begins to lead in the relationship or achieve greater heights than her lover, then this will begin to depress him and even irritate him.

Flattery

“Men love flattery” - no. Never flatter men - they really don’t like it. There are, of course, some individuals, the so-called “narcissists,” but now we are not talking about them. Men love it when everything is told to them directly and both advantages and disadvantages are pointed out. Telling a man that he has an athletic body when in fact you can see a round belly is no good. Guys already know about their shortcomings, so in this case, your partner may doubt your objectivity. There is another side to the coin: if you start criticizing a man, it will not play into your hands.

beauty

“Men love well-groomed girls” - absolutely. Of course, a well-groomed woman attracts attention. But you shouldn’t overdo it here either. Flashy makeup and harsh perfume can only repel the stronger sex.

“He likes it when I’m made up” - perhaps there are men who love a made-up lover more, but the question here is how the woman will present herself. If you directly tell a man that you yourself prefer to go without makeup, he will most likely accept this position - they don’t like makeup, after all.

Relationship

“Men don’t like to advertise their relationships” - yes. It turns out that men mostly start talking about their relationships when they gain confidence in their partner. If a girl, from the first day of meeting, posts photos on social networks or talks about a new romance to everyone around her, then the young man most likely will not like such actions. You should also not talk about your feelings or demonstrate your love in public. This can cause negative emotions not only in a man, but also in those around him.

Children

“Men preferentially want boys” - no. It's an outdated myth that men want a boy. What about football? Raising a “real man”? Yes, this exists, but today guys want both girls and boys, since raising children of different genders is in any case an experience that needs to be acquired. And what can you say if the woman you love is supposed to give birth to this child?

Intimate relationships

“Men are only interested in sex” - no, no and no again. This myth has also long been dispelled. Of course, men are males, and there will be physiological attraction to the opposite sex in any case, but, as noted above, if there is nothing to talk about with a woman, then what kind of relationship are we even talking about? Men are pragmatic, and when a relationship is built between a lover, guys want to know the thoughts and character of their chosen one, her soul, so to speak.

Romance

“Men are less romantic than girls” - and again I missed it. If you think that men have less expressed emotions, then you are wrong again. Guys can do crazy things that no woman would do. With strong feelings for their beloved, men, as they say, can move mountains - and this is the honest truth. The main rule is for a woman to inspire her lover, and then the result will not be long in coming.

Wedding

“Men are afraid of serious relationships” - no. Each of us - no matter whether a man or a woman - is looking for a reliable partner with whom he will go through life. Men are not afraid of serious relationships, since they have a more developed desire and sense of affection. Our task in this world is to build our own fortress, the fortress of a family that is pure and sincere. It has been proven that men experience breakups much harder than women. The problem is that women are ready to get married much earlier, and all because of their peculiarity - the early achievement of brain maturity.

What should I say at the end?

And for dessert. Give men more freedom. Sitting with friends, meeting a comrade from the army, or just spending time in the gym is very important to them. Don't fill it with yourself all the time, be more loyal. If you don’t need meetings with girlfriends, this does not mean that a man is ready to give up his preferences. There are many examples when couples separated due to suffocating and obsessive love. Find a compromise, choose a time when you can relax for yourself, and this applies to both women and men.

Of course, each of us is individual, and the above statements are statements that, of course, cannot apply to all men. Well, we can give only one piece of advice to women: be yourself. Naturalness, originality and naturalness are now disappearing features. Therefore, listen to your heart and do not forget to listen to your lover.