© Colleen Pinski

- Lord, how I want chocolate!
These were the words the border guard greeted us at the Santo Domingo airport. Local time is almost one in the morning.
“By the way, I have one,” I say.
I take off my backpack, unzip it and take out half a chocolate bar. While sorting out the refrigerator before leaving, for some reason I took it with me, thinking of eating it on the road, but I never ate it.
- ABOUT!! – the border guard shouts, affixing an entry stamp. - That's for me? Chocolate! Thank you, I’ve been on duty for 10 hours and have no strength.
This is what I mean. Requests to the universe must be formulated out loud and as clearly as possible. And the universe itself will figure out why the optimal way to deliver you a piece of chocolate is to carry it halfway across the Earth.

Instructions from psychologist Evgenia Bright. You can consider it a fairy tale or the most valuable information in the world.

For wishes to come true, they must be made correctly. So, the best instructions for “ordering” desires from the Universe look like this:

1. There must be ONE desire at the time of “ordering”.

How do we most often desire? Here is a typical example: “I want seven million. For three, I’ll buy myself a luxury apartment in a prestigious area. For one - a cool car. For a couple more - I’ll go see the world, to....” Stop! This exaggerated desire contains a bunch of other desires that may not be at all related to the initial one. It turns out to be some kind of matryoshka doll. This multi-layer design does not work! In order for each of the individual desires to come true, you need to work with it separately. Why?

Imagine that you are a parent. Your child comes to you and asks for one hundred rubles. Suppose a child intends to build a house for a hamster and he needs some boards, nails, a hammer... The child figured that one hundred rubles is exactly the amount that should be enough for everything he needs. But you, the parent, know that you already have a hammer in the house, you can bring boards from work, and you only need to buy nails for 30 rubles. Thus, the hamster gets a new home, the child gets the pleasure of creative work, and you get the satisfaction of solving the problem economically.

The same thing happens between us and the Universe, which is the main giver of all our benefits. Moreover, the Universe will always act in the most rational way. So, break your multi-layered, multi-component desire into components. Each component should be as basic as possible.

2. A desire should not be a condition for the fulfillment of other desires.

So, let's figure it out. Question: Why do I need seven million? Answer: To buy an apartment, a car, start a business, put the nth amount in the bank, pay off debts…. and so on. Now you need to work with each of them (apartment, car, business, bank, debts) separately. Let's continue with an example. Question: Why do I need an apartment? Answer: To get rid of parental guardianship. Next question: Why should I get rid of my parents' care? Answer: To have more personal freedom. Next question: What happens after my wish comes true? Answer: I will... (what will you?) Once your answer is expressed in FEELING, it can be considered “elementary”, i.e. the very desire that needs to be “ordered” for fulfillment.

3. Desire should ONLY evoke feelings in you, and not thoughts about new desires.

So, what will happen to you after your wish comes true? Correct answer: “I will FEEL... happiness! Satisfaction!..." Well, or something like that. Let's go back to seven million again. “When I have “item A” (that is, seven million), I can also have “items B, C, D.” Do you see? No special feelings, except the feeling that something else needs to be done with this money. And this is a sure signal of the INCORRECTNESS OF DESIRE.

Now if the answer were: “Oooh! I’ll put this money in this glass jar, put it on the table and every day I’ll be stunned by the sight of my seven million in the bank...” - wow, this is the right desire. But is this what you want? However, if you just want money, then order it. Why be ashamed? And at the same time you can order an apartment, a car, a business, debt distribution and everything else. PARALLEL!

If an apartment is only a MEANS of getting rid of parental guardianship, then you need to order (ATTENTION!) - not an apartment, but a RIDING OFF PARENTAL CUSTODY. After all, you can get an apartment, but you can’t get rid of guardianship. Parents - they can get you in a new apartment. Even at the end of the world! So, think about the result of your desire - the Universe will embody exactly the RESULT. If you want to meet a prince in a silver BMW in order to marry him, then your desire is NOT to meet a prince, but to MARRY a prince. Do you feel the difference?

4. The desire must be “ecologically friendly”.

This means that no one should suffer as a result of your desire. How to avoid unwittingly causing trouble to others? Unfortunately, it’s impossible to completely avoid troubles in life, that’s just how life works. And it is quite possible that your ardent desire to get an apartment will result in you inheriting it from a relative who suddenly died. But! It is important to remember that in any case, everything is under the control of the Universe. Your desire will always be fulfilled in the most rational way, but taking into account the life scenarios of all the characters in the action. So relax and accept everything as it comes. That is, with gratitude!

A few words about why you shouldn’t deliberately create trouble. Suppose you are overcome by the desire to harm someone. Suppose you even think that you are right. And that the “object” deserved to be punished. Now think: Is your rightness the most rightness in the world? And do you consider yourself to have the right to punish and pardon at your own discretion? When launching the boomerang of your desires, keep in mind that these flying devices have one nasty habit - they come back. So let your “boomerangs” be only good, so that you do not need to be afraid of their return.

5. The desire should concern only you, and not third parties.

Very often such desires arise: “I want my child...”, “I want my husband...” A familiar picture, right? So, SUCH desires DO NOT WORK! What to do, you ask? Is everything really hopeless? No, why not? You just need to change your desire a little. It should concern you, and not your child, husband, parents, boss, etc. It might look something like this: “I want to be proud of my child, who gets straight A’s in school,” “I want to do all the housework with my husband,” etc. In a word, turn the “arrows” on your feelings in connection with the fulfillment of your desire - that’s all.

6. You need to wish to the maximum.

One good person said: “You need to wish a lot and often. You need to wish to the maximum. You still won't get everything. But the more you want, the more you get.” And it is true! If you want a car, let it be the best car, in your opinion. What are you saying? Don't have money for one? Is there any for the old Zhiguli car? Also no? Then what's the difference? Instead of wishing for something bad, wish for something awesome! The universe is vast and inexhaustible. And limitless, as you might guess. All the restrictions that you have in life are restrictions associated with the bad flight of your imagination. Well, then pull the elevator and soar up!

1. Desire should not be tied to time. Often we want to get something by a specific deadline. The desire, of course, is humanly understandable, but... Firstly, the condition of time creates a situation of waiting for the fulfillment of a desire. And the desire must be “released”. Secondly, the Universe will still fulfill your order the way and WHEN it is most optimal for everyone, including you. Give her this opportunity - relax and don’t get attached to a time frame.
2. Don't give up your chances! How to distinguish a chance from a “non-chance”? Firstly: you begin to carefully monitor changes in your life, “accidents”, “suddenly”, “somehow by itself”. It's already a start. Don't cling to the past, embrace change with joy. It is the Universe that begins to unfold and shape events and circumstances so that you get what you want. Don't create your own scenarios. Do not stop the Universe from fulfilling your desire in the BEST WAY FOR YOU. Trust your feelings. It is very important! But since we have all been taught to trust our brains more, it will be difficult at first.
3. Start small. The larger your desire, the more difficult it is to fulfill it, the less faith you have in your own strengths, the more likely it is that you will miss favorable opportunities. So try it with nothing. Not a single artist begins to paint from a monumental canvas; everyone begins with sketches and sketches. By fulfilling your small desires, firstly, you will feel your strength, and this will give you confidence. Secondly, you will begin to trust yourself more. After all, if you can influence situations in small ways, you can do it in big ways. Third, you will have a special sense of “chance.”
4. No one can be free from the law of cause and effect. Therefore, when considering your next desire, try to avoid any negative feelings and actions. Especially feelings! For example, if it seems to you that a competitor is hindering the prosperity of your business, then you should not wish for the ruin of the competitor. Wish your company prosperity... What will happen in the end with your competitor is not your concern. The main thing is that everything will be great for you. If you have to write a test or take an exam in a subject in which you are not very good, then wish to get the highest grade, and not the teacher’s illness or a volcanic eruption directly under the building of your educational institution.
5. When working with your desires, do not chat about it with anyone! Remember that we all live at the intersection of diverse desires of diverse people. So, the less those around you know about your intentions, the less they can influence the results of the fulfillment of your desires with their own, reciprocal desires.
6. On the record! For people who are not yet very experienced in the conscious fulfillment of their desires, in order not to get confused in their ordered and just preparing to order desires, at first it is better to write your desire on a piece of paper. Get into the habit of writing your wish on a separate small piece of paper. Store the leaflets in a special envelope and review them periodically. Or get yourself a special notebook for the same purposes. Whoever likes it.

So, now your main concern is to desire for yourself what your soul strives for. And how all this will come to life – let the Universe wonder. That's what the Universe is for! Don’t tell yourself: “I’ve wanted this for so long that there’s nothing to think about.” Even the cherished dreams of a rosy childhood need preliminary revision and reworking.

Be happy! :)

Based on materials from the book by E. Bright “Become the master of your life”

Desires are human needs. Hundreds of thoughts run through my head every day. When I saw a cute puppy on the street, I wanted the same one. And a couple of minutes later a beautiful car drove by, and you’re already dreaming about it, forgetting about the puppy. Desires are fleeting, which are forgotten after some time. If everything that comes to mind were fulfilled, the world would go crazy.

How to form desires correctly

There should be only one main desire, the fulfillment of which you are waiting for. If the desire itself contains different goals, then this is wrong. It needs to be divided into several. For example, wanting to earn a certain amount of money, a person already mentally imagines where he will spend it. These are already different. First, you need to set yourself a goal to make money. The desire should be the simplest and not be a condition for the fulfillment of other wishes.

As if it had already come true. You can imagine what you want. Let a picture of the desired result emerge in your head.

Making plans for a specific time is not entirely correct. If you plan execution on a specific date, then most likely nothing will come true. A certain period of time is allotted for the fulfillment of each desire.

In the wording, omit the particle “not”. It is necessary to compose the text in such a way as to avoid the use of this particle.

Take time to formulate your desire. At the same time, use the feelings you will experience when you achieve your goal.

When fulfilling a wish, other people should not suffer. If you want to intentionally harm someone, then it is worth remembering that in life everything comes back like a boomerang.

The desire should not affect specific people. If you still need to mention a person, then your goals should not contradict the intentions of this person.

How to make a wish and have it come true

To make your wish come true, you need to figure out what exactly you plan to get in the end. The goals you strive for must be true. Achieve what will fill your life with meaning. Think about acquiring something, not getting rid of it. Such wishes are rarely fulfilled. For example, make a wish to acquire health, and not to get rid of an illness.

Try to identify those goals that are really necessary with the help of some exercises:

• Take a pen and a piece of paper. It is desirable that there is silence around and no one disturbs. Mentally formulate the question: “What do I really want?” Sit for a couple of minutes, then write down everything that comes to mind. Try to do this automatically, without analysis. Within a few minutes, transfer all your thoughts to paper. Then think a little, perhaps add something else to what you wrote.
• Imagine how your best day is going. It’s as if pictures are flashing on the screen in front of you. While dreaming, you will see what kind of house, husband, children you have. What kind of work will bring satisfaction? Ask yourself mentally questions about what exactly should be around you. The answers will emerge in your head.
• Turn on some nice relaxing music. Make yourself comfortable. You can even lie down. After counting to seven, close your eyes. Take a few deep breaths and slowly exhale. This is a state of meditation. Gradually relax, starting from your feet to your neck. Then ask yourself what you want. Thoughts and pictures will flash through your head. Don't focus on anything specific, just contemplate. Your inner voice will tell you your true dreams. Then count to three. Open your eyes and write down what you see. These are exactly the desires that will bring.

To fulfill a wish, a wish is made on certain days. These are the days of unification of the beginning and the end. For example, the last minutes of the passing year or the minute before a birthday. The first night during the waxing moon is especially successful for planning. Monday can be used. This is the beginning of the week and the beginning of a new stage in life.

If you constantly think about your innermost thoughts before going to bed, dream and make plans, then the likelihood of bringing all this into reality increases. Such desires have a certain power. You can also see what you have planned in a dream, which in the end turns out to be prophetic.

How to make a wish for Christmas

Mercantile desires rarely come true. But dreams of health, happiness, and prosperity have a chance of coming true. Plan to fulfill just such wishes.

It is believed that at 3 am you need to go outside and look at the sky. Mentally ask for what you want most. If you see a shooting star at the same time, this is a good sign.

When raising your requests to the sky, discard all negativity. Trying to harm someone will only bring harm. You must be able to forgive your enemies.

People believe that angels grant wishes on Christmas Eve. To do this, place a burning light on the window. Then your dreams will be heard.

You can write your wish on paper. Take a suitable candle: red for love, green for health, blue for relaxation or pink for romance. Then light it. Drops of wax should fall on the note. After the candle is finished, fold the paper into an envelope. Then tie it with a thread of the same color as the candle. Carry it with you for a whole year and your plans will come true.

Dreaming is good! It is necessary to wish! How to correctly formulate desires so that they come true is a great art. To master this art, you need to learn its rules.

Before you start making wishes, you need to learn how to want. You can wish for the most incredible things.

How to discover your true desires

Track which desire arises most often and consider it the most relevant at a given time. You can even resort to statistics: write down all the desires that flash through your head during the day and rank them by frequency. This kind of research will help you better understand yourself. Using this technique, you will understand what is missing in your life. Perhaps you are deprived of something that could make you much happier. This will be much more accurate than listening to other people teach you how to live your life correctly.

Armed with these revelations and knowing how to formulate your desires correctly, you can begin this activity.

The wording should be clear and simply stated. Under no circumstances should it be possible to interpret it differently.

It is advisable to say out loud what you are thinking about. Your ear is a sensitive instrument; it will immediately sense flaws in the wording that need to be corrected.

There is a kind of criterion for how clear your wording is. Imagine having to explain your application to a five-year-old child. Immediately you will begin to select simple words, complex, confusing expressions will be intuitively discarded.

Try also to explain to yourself what you want. You will immediately understand whether this is what you want.

There are many books on the psychology of communication that teach how to listen carefully to your interlocutor. But almost nowhere does it say that you need to learn to listen to yourself. There is an internal dialogue going on almost constantly in everyone's head. Thoughts are spinning chaotically. By controlling this process, you can learn to discard negative thoughts and identify your hidden desires. After all, there are desires that we hide from ourselves!

An interesting technique is used by representatives of network marketing in order to attract still hesitant people into this business. They are asked to write a list of 50 of their wishes. In response to the objection that there won’t be so many of them, it is advisable to take your time, sit down in the evening and calmly make a list. The next day, almost everyone brings a list of 50 items. The purpose of this manipulation is for the person to understand how much he still lacks in what he needs to have money for, which you can earn quickly here.

You can use this technique of identifying your sometimes unconscious, unspoken desires for your own personal purposes.

What should you “order”

There is no need to order something too global.

Wishes like “may there be peace in the whole world” or “I wish that people never get sick again”, of course, do honor to such a positive person. But they are absolutely unrealistic! The world works differently. You will have to come to terms with this and try to change the world, starting with yourself.

The following example shows how to correctly formulate a wish to make it come true. The man makes a wish: “In six months I want to see myself next to an expensive, prestigious, comfortable car.” Exactly six months later he is standing next to just such a car. One caveat is that it’s his neighbor’s car. Formally, the wish is fulfilled, but is it so?

Don't be afraid to make big long-term wishes. But it’s better to break them down into step-by-step, easily achievable ones. Follow the comic advice on how to eat an elephant. The answer is piece by piece.

How to correctly formulate a desire to receive higher education? In addition to the main one, which expresses the essence, for many years it will be necessary to formulate many more small desires, subordinate to this goal. “I want to get a score in the entrance exams that is sufficient for admission to the institute of my choice.” “I wish that I enjoy studying and do not present insurmountable difficulties.” And so on until the final “I wish the thesis defense to be successful.”

There is no need to avoid satisfying small desires that appear every day. Eating ice cream, going for a walk, talking with friends: doing these small pleasures greatly enhances life.

Make your own dreams come true

Your definition of happiness is different from other people's. Don't stick to the boundaries they set. The advice that you can hear from them is based on their personal experience, their tastes, their prejudices.

Analyze whether your desire is simply a tribute to tradition. If the meaning of this tradition has already been lost, abandon it. We all have intuition. If you listen to it, you can reveal your true desires. This is very important - our own.

The main rule of formulating desires

• Our subconscious does not perceive the “no” part. It is useless to argue with this, you can only take it into account.

How to correctly formulate a desire, given this circumstance? Incorrect: “I don’t want to be fat.” The subconscious, discarding the “no” particle, will hear: “I want to be fat.” And he will try to do it. Also incorrect: “I want to become thin.” Don't you want to get anorexia?

Correct: “I want to be slim.” Be careful.

• The right to change your mind

The world is changing. We change along with the world. The acquired experience gives rise to new values. Don’t feel guilty about “betraying” your previous principles. Desire what is most important in your life at the moment.

• The right to be inconsistent

When you got married, you wished: “I want to live with this man all my life.” Life makes its own adjustments. Living together becomes impossible. It doesn't even matter for what reasons. You shouldn’t feel guilty thinking differently: “I want to find a worthy man who would become a faithful companion to me and a good father to my children.”

• There should be only one wish per order

There is no need to confuse yourself and your subconscious by lumping together everything that you currently lack. Solve your problems in order of importance or urgency. If a new circumstance suddenly arises, change the items on your list.

• Desire should not cause unpleasant feelings

There is no clear criterion for what is right and what is wrong. A kind of criterion for how moral your action was is a certain “aftertaste.” If you feel good, calm and joyful, then everything was done correctly.

You can apply a version of this principle when expressing desires. Only here there will be “anticipation”. If you are about to wish for something and feel discomfort, stop and analyze the situation several times.

• Don't harm anyone with your desires

Something unpleasant happened - you were fired. The first impulse is to wish your boss that something very bad will happen to him. So that he knows! This will immediately be reflected on your face - an angry grimace will appear. The boss will immediately think how right he was.

Another option: you mentally thank him and the employees for all the good things that happened. After all, there was something. We wish him every success. And it shows on your face. The boss begins to doubt and regret. The contact will be saved, which may be useful in the future.

Which option is preferable?

• Ask for yourself

How to correctly formulate a desire so that it concerns only you?

We often think that everything that we like has the same value for others. How can you enjoy visiting museums when fishing gives you so many pleasant sensations?

Of course, you can advise something, but you shouldn’t insist. Desire and implement what you like, and you will find allies.

• Step outside your comfort zone

If you want something ordinary, then you will get ordinary. Try to want the unknown, for example, to visit some exotic country that you never dared to dream about. It’s not all about digging beds in the garden.

How to correctly formulate the desire to have a good vacation?

Firstly, there is no need to indicate specific deadlines. The work schedule, even one already approved, can be adjusted. You or those you were planning to travel with may become ill.

Secondly, you should not specifically indicate the country. The world is unpredictable, relations with her may suddenly worsen, and entry will be temporarily closed. Or your friends will return from a trip to another place and give excellent recommendations.

In your formulation, it is better to describe the sensations that you would like to experience.

Desire to get rich

How to correctly formulate desires to increase your well-being?

Among the many books for those who want to get rich, Napoleon Hill’s book “Think and Grow Rich” has become especially famous. In this book, the author argues that the first step to wealth is desire. He encourages you not to be shy about asking a lot from life. Then life will also show generosity.

Hill names 6 stages of turning desire into money.

1. It is not enough to wish “I want to have a lot of money.” You must indicate the exact quantity.
2. Decide what you are willing to sacrifice to make your desire come true.
3. Estimate the deadline by which you will have the planned amount of money.
4. It is necessary to draw up a detailed plan for fulfilling your desire and begin to act immediately.
5. Write down the entire plan on paper.
6. Read this plan out loud every day.

The desire to have money, if it has managed to master it, will become your assistant in implementing the plan. Your goal is to have a strong desire to have money. You have to want it so much that what you want eventually becomes reality.

In the modern world there is intense competition. The one who has a specific goal wins this race. The strongest desire for success is the first assistant in this.

Nothing should affect your dream. One of the most famous dreamers is Thomas Edison. He dreamed of an electric light bulb. His dream came true after ten thousand unsuccessful experiments. A wonderful example of staying true to your dream!

For desire, the starting point is a dream. But you need to understand that there is a difference between desire and willingness to accept it.

Stop thinking that you are not worthy of being rich, that others deserve it more. To finally overcome these doubts in yourself, imagine how correctly you will manage your money, how you can benefit not only yourself, but also those around you. By the way, indeed, charity is an indispensable companion for wealthy people. I recommend reading ““.

Mindfulness is a way to monitor your thoughts

As a rule, we do not monitor the course of our thoughts and let them take their course. We don’t keep track of what our brain desires, what it’s afraid of, what it considers important and what doesn’t deserve attention. We go about our daily activities without paying attention to what we are thinking about at that moment.

By starting to monitor the flow of your thoughts, you can look at your life more critically.

Maybe you are no longer satisfied with your job and need a new one. “I want to find a job that is fulfilling and pays better than what I have now.”

Something needs to change in your family or personal life. “My wife and I should be together more often.” “It’s time to end the single life and find yourself a true life partner.”

It is necessary to develop the mindset of a successful person. For such a person, a positive attitude helps to formulate the right desires. But, it is necessary to remember that desires alone are not enough. To implement them, you need to act!

When making a wish, including one about love, people deep down hope that it will come true. And often wishes really come true. Especially often - among those who can correctly guess them and activate the forces responsible for their execution.

First, learn to think systematically. If every day you passionately dream of loving and being loved, but you think that in order to do this you must first achieve perfection, correct your figure, go to beauty salons, earn money - this is the wrong train of thought. In fact, only the desire to improve oneself will come true, but not to find love and not achieve it. If you constantly ask yourself, “What else should I do to get reciprocal feelings from so-and-so?”, then in reality you will just find a couple more new ways to show your feelings. Of several wishes, the strongest one comes true. If you dream of finding love, it may be found in the most unexpected place and at the most unexpected time.

Don't limit the ways in which your desire can come true. Don't set limits or boundaries. If you want to find the love of your life, don't think about meeting a handsome prince who will definitely have an expensive car, house and yacht. If the goal is to benefit from getting married, then everything is correct. Only your chosen one may be found with an extremely bad character or is no longer free. By setting restrictions, for example, “my chosen one or chosen one should only be fair-haired,” you prohibit the desire to be fulfilled in other ways. In other words, by complicating a desire, you make it more difficult for those forces that are “responsible” for its fulfillment to fulfill it.

Make love wishes for the New Year, for your birthday, for Valentine's Day. These are the most effective days, when the passion for fulfilling your desire is greatly enhanced by your emotional mood. Prepare yourself in advance to perceive miracles and inexplicable things. Remember how you once received big and small gifts from fate. Believe, as far as possible, believe in the possibility of fulfilling what you have planned, in the fact that this is how it should be. Try to see the world around you in a positive light, this will also increase your chances of fulfilling your desires.

Formulate your desire correctly. Talk not about what you don't want, but about what you do want. Make a wish so that the fulfillment of your plan does not depend on anyone but you. Incorrect: “I want him to love me.” That's right: “I want to make so-and-so fall in love with me.” Make wishes that correspond to your capabilities. When formulating your “request”, either be as broad as possible, or carefully consider all the conditions. But, in the first case, you may not realize the dream you dreamed of, and in the second, you may have to wait a long time for its fulfillment. After you have formulated your desire, try to visualize it. Dream about making it come true. Imagine in your dreams all the shades and details of achieving what you want. These dreams should definitely please you, lift your spirits, so that the emotional charge will help your desire come true as soon as possible. Feel that you are worthy of fulfilling your desire.

Be sure to indicate the deadline for fulfilling your desire. Otherwise, it will come true after many, many years. But be prudent: don’t expect it to be completed in 20 minutes. Start paying attention to the signs that appear in your life. It happens that they tell you the way to the place where your dream is destined to come true. Or they hinder you when you unconsciously run away from realizing your dreams.

There are a lot of people who are not ready to fulfill their desires. They made plans to meet a loved one, and when they meet, they run past, hurrying to work. Or they suddenly begin to doubt and prevent the relationship from developing. And the next opportunity to realize your dream may not come. Therefore, do not resist your destiny, otherwise no forces will be able to realize for you what you have wished for.

Since a lot of questions are received based on the wording, I want to sort everything out.

• We formulate all desires ONLY in the present tense.
• The wishes that you write down in the wish notebook are best written in the form of gratitude. The wording is: “I accept with gratitude from the Universe...”. There should not be any “NOT” particles in the formulation (instead of “I am not sick” you formulate “I am healthy”).
• If possible, instead of money, it is better to think of the purpose for which you need it. If you really want to make a wish in the form of a sum of money, then at the end you must add: May the wish come true for my and everyone’s good.
• Regarding deadlines: it’s better not to set them. The Universe knows better than you and me when and in what way your desire should come true. But if you are confident in the reality of your desire, or it is already on the way to fulfillment, then you can set a deadline for your own motivation.
• All your desires should concern you PERSONALLY, or your loved ones, provided that your intentions do not contradict the intentions of another person.
• It is absolutely forbidden to make wishes to be loved by some person who does not actually reciprocate your feelings. If you are not embarrassed by violence against someone else’s intentions, then think about the fact that you will have the exact opposite result. That is, not only will they not fall in love with you, but they will also become disgusted and the person will disappear from your life altogether.
• There are many questions on the topic “How to formulate desires for your husband to be successful at work.” It is better to formulate a desire that will concern the success of your family as a whole. And he can come just through his husband.
• Formulations for the Glass of Water Technique - if you need to solve a problem - then the wording sounds like this: “Now I need to solve the question of how to (get a job, pass an interview, meet a soulmate, pay off debts, etc.).”
• Desires for the “Notebook for 100 days” Technique - formulate as usual in the present tense. When describing all the steps to achieve your goal: if you have no idea how to achieve this goal, then make at least some attempt to find out. Try to notice the slightest positive signs.
• If you use the wording “I want” in your desire, then this will be the case in real life - instead of fulfilling your desire, you will continue to just “want” its fulfillment.